So here I am, still navigating the maze of this challenging season; still dealing with dead ends, struggling to be patient with the process, and trying to choose to feel it all.
Category: Author: Jessica
Finding the “and” in the New Year
Life is full of both: it is hard and it is full of joy. There are painful accidents and there are also New Year’s Eve cookies and conversations. There are feelings of helplessness and fear and also feelings of gratitude and connection. Life is full of complexity. Life often has an and.
Destination Shoutout – The Public Library
Whether you are exploring Fargo or visiting another vacation destination, I encourage you to check out the local library. Bring a journal or a book and spend a few minutes connecting to a place where so many other learners, explorers, readers, and writers have been.
Summer Destination Shoutout – Spend the Day on the Water in North Dakota
When I think of bodies of water, I think of my childhood spending summers at the river and lake in my home state of North Dakota. The Missouri River, the longest river in the country, flows right through North Dakota and Lake Sakakawea offers hundreds of miles of shoreline. Growing up, many weekends were spent boating, fishing for walleye, and swimming in the lake.
Summer Destination Shoutout – An aMOOsing North Dakota Stop
About 30 minutes west of Bismarck, ND on I-94 is a delightful destination. Let me introduce you to Salem Sue, the world’s LARGEST Holstein Cow.
Spring and New Beginnings
Spring brings new growth as well as a sense of fresh beginnings. Ideas and goals that hibernated during the winter months slowly peek back out as the days get longer and the sunshine and fresh air provides much needed mental rejuvenation. As I reflected on my spring season, I have found that helpful, small reminders accompany the feeling of new beginnings in this season.
Self-Care Reminders for Divisive Times
I cannot pour from an empty cup and neither can you. Remember who you are, remember what is good, remember to take care of yourself, and then do what you can
New Year: Focus on Living
As I prepared to write my 2025 post, I thought to myself, this year is going to be different, I am going to write about slowing down and living in the moment. Except as I re-read my past New Years posts, I realized that in essence this has been my theme all along. It is a reminder of how easy it is for me throughout the year to get pulled into the hustle culture and catch phrases on how to successfully do it all, that I forget to remember that I previously decided not to buy into it. Nevertheless, this New Year I am recommitting to continuing the journey of enjoying the day-to-day life I live.
5th Blogiversary!
This month we celebrate our fifth blogiversary of the Unexpected Ever Afters! We are thrilled to mark this milestone and we wanted to take this opportunity to share our “5 Top 5 for Our 5th! ” Thanks for joining us on our journey.
Navigating Worry: This Mom’s Journey Through Stress
I just wanted to share this post for all the mamas that are also drowning in worry. A soft landing spot on the internet for the middle-of-the-night “Am I worrying too much?” or “Will my anxieties ruin my kids?” searches. You’re not alone.
the unexpected ever afters 